Saturday, April 21, 2007

havasupai...


[warning! amy says this post is way too long. so if you aren't interested in what i have to say about our vacation then please feel free to skip down and just look at the pretty pictures (taken unfortunately on a disposable fuji camera).]

amy and i have been trying for a 'big vacation' since medical school started. yet kids and schedules have not permitted exotic planning. two summers ago, our trip to russia ended up as a work/play trip that was a once in a lifetime trip with many poignant memories (thank you matt and angela for watching michael). our time with jonny, mom and dad will never be forgotten and always fondly remembered (we nearly named the twins olga and svetlana because of that trip:) however, russia is not a relaxing place (sorry jonny), and thus our quest continued. i was hoping for some tropical cruise to mexico, but our checkbook balked at this idea.

during medical school, a good friend of ours--devan griner--took several trips to a place he raved about. he talked about a tropical paradise in the desert. with the fresh sting of a cruise unrealized in my mind, i turned to the next best (even better?) thing. a tropical stop among the redrocks of the grand canyon.

and so we began our planning. we got online in january and the website run by the havasupai indian tribe mentioned april and may prime tourist months (june too hot. july and august with monsoons and flash floods). i jumped at the advice and scheduled vacation during april. my mother dearest graciously offered to take our kiddos and the trip was on.

after lots of planning, purchases and borrowing of camping equipment (thank you brian for outfitting us) the trip was upon us. the night before we left, ben sill called (another good friend from med school) and mentioned that we ought to go later in the year when the weather is hotter. we shrugged our shoulders realizing that he was probably right, but the die had been cast.

mom picked up the kiddos in st george with judy. our reunion with mom was one of the highlights of the trip for me. the kids were all so happy to see her as was i.

amy and i drove the 6 hours to peach springs that night, stayed in the hotel run by the havasupai indians (complete with native bird dancers) and drove an hour to the trailhead the next morning. there were some nerves before we started as i had never carried the amount of weight i had in my pack and amy had never hiked this far (let alone with the amount of weight she was carrying in her pack). however, from the smiles on our faces below you can see that the hike down was a good time for us. we were able to talk, avoid blisters and enjoy the increasingly beautiful redrock views.


we stopped in the village of havasupai on the way to the campground. much of what we had been told about the village was true. there is a post-office, grocery store, and cafe. however, that sentence does the place undue justice. there is a pack of wild, mangy dogs that terrorize (amy and i aren't dog lovers) yelping, nipping and copulating.

we made the 8 mile hike to the village in good time, sent out a postcard and thought we would enjoy some authentic native american food (ala my father's opinion that you should always sample the local cuisine when vacationing). well, that was a mistake. our 'indian taco' was a can of uncooked beans--bean juice and all--dumped over a greasy, soggy scone with imitation cheese, lettuce and tomato on top. we came away from the village slightly disturbed and hiked the last two miles in search of better things to come.

the falls did not disappoint. each is beautiful in its own way.


the first falls we visited (above and below) is havasu. in addition to the main waterfall, you can see the pools of water with 'minifalls'. these are all over the creek for miles. we took tubes down to topple over these small falls (at devan's suggestion), but it was too cold and we did not give it a try.


below is mooney falls. the furthest down the trail. the drop this falls makes is eye-catching. the decent to the bottom is as well. aj mentioned cliff jumping part-way up this wall, but we didn't have anyone there jumping off this wall to show us the ropes. next time we need to go down with a larger group of daredevils to show us the best places for cheap thrills...

the first disappointment of the trip was when we realized that i had forgotten the tent poles. we took a picture of the contraption we rigged after two hours of searching but it didn't turn out well. we basically ended up in a rock/dirt pile with lots of branches to which we tied the tent.


we swam only once. above you can see amy up on the rocks of navajo falls. any bets on whether she jumped in from there?


we're home now. the trip was great. thank you all who helped make the trip happen. and thank you for reading to the end of a post that was too long for its own good.

here's a poor picture of the tent matty:

Saturday, April 14, 2007

5 Kids 3 and Under...

We loved having Matt and Angela, Brinlee and Max visit us a few days ago. It was a trip where the cousins got a lot of togetherness... and the parents took turns on expeditions of their own.

Michael woke up to the news that Brinlee arrived during the night. Here they are bonding over some Trix...



And Max bonded with the girls over breakfast, as well...



The biggest purpose for the trip (unbeknownst to Angela) was a celebration of their 5th anniversary with a re-visit to their honeymoon spots in San Diego. Isn't my little bro thoughtful?? They returned with tales of walking along the beach for hours at a time, wonderful restaurants, and an amazing cove they said we HAVE to go to.

In fact, they were so anxious for us to experience their cove discovery that they offered to extend their trip to let us take an overnight getaway to the same place. Tempting... but we have our own getaway to Havasupi coming up this week! (!!!!!) But we did take them up on the afternoon to get some last-minute preparations done for that backpacking/camping extravaganza. THANK YOU Matt and Ang.

I only wish I had gotten more pictures of those few days... the kids were all so cute together!

Our visit ended at the Huntington Beach pier. We had a full beach day planned... checked the expected temperatures, but failed to notice anything about a wind advisory. After realizing that our skin would be effectively sandblasted if we continued our plans, we headed to the pier where we had a yummy lunch and witnessed amazing winds and waves. I don't know when I've been in stronger wind... it was amazing.


Michael and Brinlee thought it was pretty cool.



Bekah liked it for the first while... but ended up being tired of it.



And I got excellent cuddle time with Abby. She happily buried her head in whichever shoulder of mine was not facing the wind.



When they left, it was nice to say "See you in Branson!"... only 1.5 months away!

Sunday, April 08, 2007

easter weekend...


it was amy's birthday this weekend (april 7th). while michael and i were picking out her presents at costco we saw a carrot cake. michael knew at that moment that she needed a sweet carrot cake for her birthday. the results are seen above and below.


it's hard to describe just how important amy is to michael, abby, bekah and me. the cake we made comes very close to capturing the feeling though. we love her and don't know what we'd do without her.



michael and brinley could not wait to see each other. both stayed up past one o'clock the night they drove in (against their parents wishes) out of the excitment of it all. their exuberance is amply evident above.



we were lucky to have the peterson's over for easter. the kids and adults all got along great:) it was really good of the peterson's to make the drive with their busy weekend. we hung out in a prelude to the sure sweetness to follow when the risenmays, sheryls and petersons all descend on branson to fulfill a jones' family dream.


we were happy to see michael reacquainting himself with cousins he doesn't see very often.

happy easter all.

Friday, April 06, 2007

peace and love, peace and love...


i was roused from sleep this morning by a disturbing dream. it had to do with a violation of trust between amy and me. the experience was devastating (in my dream). i was happy to wake, shake it off and reassure myself. i got to thinking though, about my life. trust has rarely been violated in my life. (incidentally, the dream was not based in reality:)

trust is a delicate thing. moments when commonly held values grow thin and trust is tampered with become defining moments for growth, change and re-evaluation. perhaps these events make a relationship more human, they may irreparably damage a relationship, but with proper change may possibly strengthen a relationship in the realization of weakness, mutual growth and support.

trust plays a part in every relationship. an episode highlighted this for me in the ER when a younger patient received a devastating facial injury during a common childhood activity (involving jumping). prior to the full extent of the injury\ies coming to light, but during the exam when the probabilities were explained, the father began berating the adolescent for stupidity and it's immediate effect on the dad's time, work and personal concerns. (*names, dates, gender and specifics of patient care have been altered to protect patient privacy and to comply with HIPAA)

i was disturbed. this was a dynamic i had never known. the closest i came was when i rode through the spanish fork library's front window on my rollerblades. it happened on a sunday immediately after my father asked me to please stop breaking the sabbath. i vividly remember entering my grandparent's house. i told my mom that i hade broken a window and her look of anger melted to concern as she saw the blood dripping from my arm. her unconditional love on that and other difficult occasions allows me to trust in her love.

last night's dream set in relief life's subtle choices that lead to not so subtle results.


*thank you to aj for his very thoughtful gesture. his purchase of these t-shirts--despite their implications for the world's ducks--was very kind and michael's expressions above relay my feelings about the gesture. trust strengthened.

Sunday, April 01, 2007

Conference weekend...

We hope you all enjoyed Conference weekend. Although Paul was on call Saturday, his senior resident was really nice and let him off early Sunday morning. Thanks to BYUTV online, we were able to hook up our computer to the television and enjoy Conference that way! We spread out a blanket and all the pillows,

It was a great experience for me for many reasons... one of which was having Michael enjoy it with me. I was excited to do a "General Conference FHE" last Monday, and made some apostle matching cards. We taped one set up on the fireplace mantel, and there were two other sets he used. He got really into them, and played with during the sessions. Between the cards, a conference bingo game, his cars, and pancake breakfasts--Michael stayed right beside me during all four sessions! I was such a happy mother! He really picked up on a lot of phrases and words and related them to scripture study, FHE, and primary. It is amazing to see everything connecting for him!



By the way, Grandpa Frandsen... Michael has begun to favor the left hand. Don't know if it is permanent, but here is proof...



And here are some of the things the girls are doing. Most of this video is them just rummaging in the living room, but gives a taste of their dancing styles...



And here is Abby's latest game... "Kiss and Run."



Highlights of Conference?? MOTAB's "Come Thou Fount" Saturday morning, Elder Scott's clear instruction about receiving answers to prayer, Elder Holland's sermon on the power of words (calling women to repentance along with the men), seeing the Tabernacle looking so great, Elder Oaks' clarification on the issues surrounding divorce, seeing President Hinckley--who didn't look as bad as some of the rumors suggested--and who was cheerfully optimistic about his health. I have a lot to think about...

How about you??

Friday, March 23, 2007

Oh, the Mad, Mad Month of March...



AJ and Chelsey's brackets shot from 10th to the top over the weekend as they held up under scrutiny! The competition is sifting the wheat and the tares. I'm just starting to wish there were money involved...:)

More March fun:


The Madness of March basketball has even gotten to the sisters...


(Bekah is on the left, Abby is on the right during most of this clip.)

So while the Cougars didn't make it to the Elite Eight as was my hope of all hopes, Memphis came through for me and my NCAA bracket is still in the game. It has been fun to keep up with others' brackets. Jonny is riding high, but not for long, I'm afraid. Good to see P. Risen (squalldude) rising in the ranks. And I'm sure AJ is quacking happily right now.

So you all heard about our "March Madness" basketball hoop upgrade (the hoop has since been moved to a much taller setting!)...



... but we also upgraded the musicality of our home by moving a piano into our family room.



Our friends had it in the garage, and won't be using it anytime soon (thank you Rowleys!). So in the meantime, we dusted it off and Paul is putting it to mighty good use!



Michael thinks it is mighty nifty to have his dad play all of his favorite Primary songs... and I, myself, find it mighty fine to be serenaded at all hours of the day. So while this piano probably won't make the move with us in 2.3 years, at present we are using the piano more than the mountain bike! (But who's counting??)

Thursday, March 15, 2007

game on...

a fun little diversion while we wait for the games to start this weekend. who knew?


HowManyOfMe.com
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the second round toppled the leaderboard. the deej and jonny bravely made their way to the top of the list riding the backs of unlv, pittsburgh and others.
a nice juxtaposition of the newly marrieds at the top.











matt continues to languish with michael near the bottom of the bracket, but don't count him out. this plucky new mexican will rise to ride another day.



michael is nevertheless undaunted and winning our household bracket by playing for his wins:



when the first round was completed...

the top two spots belonged to tracy and paul.



be not deceived however, the first round is more like trivia. the next round's picks are worth double the point and matt's bracket still has a lot of upside. poor michael however, is doomed. he picked with much regional and family loyalty (any team with oregon, new mexico or byu in the name advanced?) he was the only one in the bracket to pick well below the level of 50% chance...

the bottom two spots after the first round? michael and matt.




the tournament begins! you can get onto the family bracket to follow the scores in our group. there a bunch of cool features that let you check out your current standing and forecast who would win by choosing different teams to the championship game.

there are only three true fans who picked BYU to go all the way--dad, libby and michael.

there is only one member who picked BYU to lose in the first round...aj :( however, jonny has oregon advancing the furthest. that makes jonny the true duck :)

let the games begin!

Tuesday, March 13, 2007

You say it's your Birthday...

Happy Birthday to my mom... who, I can't believe, is closer to 100 than to 1.

She's been such a motivation and support to me.



Loving and loyal...



...her kindness and concern have touched and changed so many lives.



Her greatest gift to me is her example.



Her testimony and faith is a true light that pierces through the dark.

I love you, mom!

Sunday, March 11, 2007

tournament pool...



will the cougars get past the first round? the seeds were made public today. the mountain west conference only got two teams and their teams were seeded well below what their rpi dictated.

oh well, the dance begins. i set up a bracket for all readers of our blog to join in on. here's the info:

go to this link.
before clicking the 'join group' button (see below) you will need to sign up for a yahoo account. it's pretty easy and quick. i just used the same user id and password from my hotmail account. it is a bit inconvenient, but well worth the interactivity of the bracket we get to use...after getting your yahoo id and password then follow the next three steps:
click on "join group" button.
group id#: 85242
password: cutestevie

good times...

Tuesday, March 06, 2007

for whom would you vote...


i want to start by reminding you of my prediction for the election result. there were doubters among you, but he has taken some big steps in recent weeks. even ann coulter agrees--and i would take her word over jon stewart's anyday. my newest caviat is that romney will beat clinton. he probably wouldn't beat several of the other democratic candidates that won't win the democratic primary.

so, todays exercise is one some of you may be uncomfortable with. pretend you are democrat. don't take this lightly; really delve in. if the democratic primary were held today and you feel the current president (a liar, unilateralist, polluter, bigot, oil stealing, gun wielding and stupid white man--among his finer points) has brought our nation to the brink of destruction (not a religious, armageddon destruction. religion is for weak, unintelligent people. it is a bigoted and hateful relic of the dark ages. this destruction will be a pragmatic response of reasonable muslims who have been bullied by a big texan).

DISCLAIMER: if you really are a democrat, please realize the paragraph above was just a joke and i don't believe you personally believe what i just wrote. and who's to say i'm not a democrat at heart?

anyway, whatever your reasons, you are democrat through and through and you get to pick from one of the candidates below. do you know any of them? whom do you know? for whom would you vote?

(i'll give you 50 green house gas credits if you can name them all right now without google--in order, by number)

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4.
5.
6.
7.
8.

is it time for a new party in the white house? what are the issues that are most important to you? is there one issue that means so much that it would cause you not to vote for a candidate? are there reasons you would or wouldn't want a mormon in office? do you feel our country is headed in the right or wrong direction?

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