we have a tradition of 'special days' with the kids. a special day can be with mom, dad, grandma, grandpa, an aunt or uncle. a few years back i had an experience with michael in joshua tree that remains a highlight of my relationship with him. i figured it was time to get out one on one with the girls and get to know them a little better.
we loved it.
the trips were two weeks apart. abby went first. it was mid-week and the we almost had the canyon to ourselves. we started at walmart and wendys. she loved picking out the items we would eat on the trip and directing me to the different items. with drinks and food in hand we headed up the canyon. out first stop was the scout/church campground where we ate by the river to eat our food and she played on the slide. there were young men/ young women events planned for the evening so i figured life would be peaceful further up the canyon.
you can see abby here after her wendy's...

the next morning, my battery went dead, so i have no proof of our ramen noodle breakfast, our hiking expedition through the creek. both were lots of fun with my sweet abby.after the trip i feel like our relationship is better. she is more verbal with me and i feel like we connect better when i speak with her. what a great time.
in the following weeks, bekah alluded often to her upcoming 'special day' in the mountains. it hadn't been officially planned that i would take them both camping separately, but with bekah referring to her coming camping trip i knew i'd better get it planned and done before snowfall (so i'm a cold wimp...)
when the day came bekah was excited. she was definitely anxious to prove she was a good hiker, climber and camper. we stopped by walmart, roxberry and little caesars for our pre-camping meal. we headed directly to the reservoir and headed out on a hike. unlike with abby, the leaves had turned and were colors everywhere. both my girls love to run along the trail (but that has been the case since the moment we took them out in public together--they like to run everywhere.)

however, she loved hanging out near the fire in her blanket after the fact. we cooked on the new grill, ate oreos, warmed up and talked. bekah was in a silly mood and was glad to be on her special day.
i worked earlier in the day the next day and the gear was wet so we broke camp early and headed home to set it out in the sun.
overall, it was great times all around. i would love to make trips like this at least a yearly event with each kiddo. it means a lot to them and it means a lot to me.

4 comments:
I am so grateful that my kiddos have an amazingly interested, dedicated, and FUN father! They love Paul, and know that they are loved by him. Thanks, sweetie!
Maybe it is because I am the main author in our family, but initially I was thinking "Wow, Amy...so impressed...camping on your own" :)
But that is awesome. I think that is a good tradition that we should continue in our family.
"Wow, Paul...so impressed...camping on your own"
aren't they just the cutest? jee whiz.
I love Special Days. Sounds like yours were a hit!
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